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Conflict Resolution Skill #9: Plan Your Next Meeting

By this stage of the process you have politely and respectfully arranged a meeting, clarified a conflict, shared what did not work for you, and brainstormed solutions that might… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #9: Plan Your Next Meeting”

October 13, 2011October 13, 2011 by Jerry Toops

Conflict Resolution Skill #8: Do YOUR Part!

In this skill each individual commits to the other their willingness to act on the chosen solution. The action must be specific and spoken out loud to… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #8: Do YOUR Part!”

October 12, 2011October 12, 2011 by Jerry Toops

Conflict Resolution Skill #7: Choose One Solution to Try.

At this stage of conflict resolution we are ready to act.  This will involve choosing a new way of approaching the conflict based on the process covered… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #7: Choose One Solution to Try.”

October 11, 2011 by Jerry Toops

Conflict Resolution Skill #6: Prioritize.

In resolving conflict within marriage, I have proposed that the main purpose of a marriage relationship is to be creative: physically, spiritually, and emotionally.  Joy results from… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #6: Prioritize.”

October 10, 2011October 10, 2011 by Jerry Toops

Conflict Resolution Skill #5: Be Creative (Part 2)

In yesterday’s post I began the discussion of finding out what works for you in resolving conflict.  I would like to clarify this in today’s post. I… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #5: Be Creative (Part 2)”

October 9, 2011 by Jerry Toops

Conflict Resolution Skill #5: Be Creative! (Part 1)

Thus far in the conflict resolution process we have learned several skills: Be polite and respectful by making an appointment with each other, clarify the conflict by being specific,… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #5: Be Creative! (Part 1)”

October 8, 2011October 8, 2011 by Jerry Toops

Conflict Resolution Skill #4: Know What Doesn’t Work!

In the conflict resolution skill for today we learn how to share with our partner what frustrates or shuts down a discussion.  If a process or method… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #4: Know What Doesn’t Work!”

October 7, 2011October 7, 2011 by Jerry Toops

Conflict Resolution Skill #3: Be Assertive!

The conflict resolution skill for today requires strength and honesty, because in this skill each partner must assertively take responsibility for their individual part in a conflict.… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #3: Be Assertive!”

October 6, 2011October 6, 2011 by Jerry Toops

Conflict Resolution Skill #2: Choose One Topic!

The skill for today, choose one topic, may seem trite, but in fact this process is one of the most effective.  After being polite and respectful enough to set… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #2: Choose One Topic!”

October 5, 2011 by Jerry Toops

Conflict Resolution Skill #1: Be Polite and Respectful

As I begin this series on resolving conflict I would like to make an important point.  Conflict is a natural, and life-giving part of life.  It should… Read more “Conflict Resolution Skill #1: Be Polite and Respectful”

October 4, 2011October 4, 2011 by Jerry Toops

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